The Silent Surge of Situationships undermining Black Gen Z love
Gen Z is known for being tech-savvy, outspoken, socially aware and quick to redefine old expectations, especially around relationships. However, as quick as they are to redefine relationship standards, some are finding it difficult to date, start and maintain relationships, often feeling like they are stuck in limbo.
Are We Still Watching Reality TV or Just Trauma Bonding?
Reality TV is supposed to be fun, but for Black viewers, it’s often emotional labor.
Streaming promised variety. What we got instead was recycled chaos. “Find Love or Pop the Balloon” began on YouTube as a rarity: a dating show that saw Black love without filters. Created by Arlette Amuli and Bolia “BM” Matundu, it was soft, layered and unapologetically Black.
It felt authentic. Then came Netflix.